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討厭的人都跌倒吧 (吉竹伸介)5 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
作者：吉竹伸介｜繪者： 吉竹伸介｜譯者：鄭雅云
這是一本將壞情緒轉換成好情緒的書！
小孩心情不好的時候
心裡到底都在想什麼？
他們也有滿滿的負能量嗎？
暢銷繪本作家吉竹伸介
這次要教你排解負面情緒的五大絕招！
不要假裝包容
拒絕逆來順受
徹底擺脫生氣、傷心、負面情緒
我有討厭的人，而且有好幾個。
為什麼他們要那樣說話呢？
為什麼他們要欺負別人呢？
真希望討厭的人都被石頭絆倒！
我會在心裡幻想
該怎麼對付討厭的人
但是討厭一個人好浪費時間啊！
究竟該怎麼做比較好呢？
【消滅討厭情緒的5步驟】
1.想像如何對付討厭的人
2.做一些跟討厭的人完全無關的事
3.做一些自己最喜歡的事
4.思考討厭的人做那些行為的原因
5.找出解決問題的方法
本書特色
●探討負面情緒，結合觀察、推理與哲學思考。
●延續吉竹伸介的趣味風格，發揮無限想像力！
小孩心情不好的時候
心裡到底都在想什麼？
他們也有滿滿的負能量嗎？
暢銷繪本作家吉竹伸介
這次要教你排解負面情緒的五大絕招！
不要假裝包容
拒絕逆來順受
徹底擺脫生氣、傷心、負面情緒
我有討厭的人，而且有好幾個。
為什麼他們要那樣說話呢？
為什麼他們要欺負別人呢？
真希望討厭的人都被石頭絆倒！
我會在心裡幻想
該怎麼對付討厭的人
但是討厭一個人好浪費時間啊！
究竟該怎麼做比較好呢？
【消滅討厭情緒的5步驟】
1.想像如何對付討厭的人
2.做一些跟討厭的人完全無關的事
3.做一些自己最喜歡的事
4.思考討厭的人做那些行為的原因
5.找出解決問題的方法
本書特色
●探討負面情緒，結合觀察、推理與哲學思考。
●延續吉竹伸介的趣味風格，發揮無限想像力！
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★★★★★ 3
Interesting, but not empirically validated, and written explicitly for straight people (why?!)
Format: Kindle
This one’s the 500-pound gorilla of the healthy-couple self-help genre, with thirty years in print, scores of Oprah appearances by the authors, thousands of therapists practicing the Imago framework.
The main thing that I need to tell you about this updated edition, from the year 2019, is that it does not mention or acknowledge the existence of queer or same-sex couples even one time. In fact, it really doubles down on the husband and wife stuff, takes gender roles pretty seriously, which is not a thing I realized we did anymore, except as a joke. Anyway, talking only to straight people is not too relevant to my interests, and while the conservative Christian viewpoint is pretty subtle in the advertising, just be aware of that PROBABLY NOT ACCIDENTAL omission going in, queer friends.
(This is made even more impressive by the fact that the heart of the Imago approach is based on childhood trauma, about the ways in which our parents caused us to suppress or hide or ignore parts of ourselves in order to be accepted and loved. Just let that sink in, because I’ve been reading this book for the past week and I am still reeling from the irony that people who have been thinking for the past three decades about the ways that parents cause trauma to kids by failing to accept parts of them have missed the VERY OBVIOUS AND RELEVANT EXAMPLE of queer folks.)
That aside, for me the book was a mixed-bag of some interesting and provocative ideas (I’d put these in the category of poetic notions, or interesting narrative ideas), alongside some really kooky 20th century neo-Freudian stuff (rooted in part in Freud’s theory of repetition compulsion.) I’m no fan of Freudian approaches, and after I started this book, I decided to see how empirically-validated this Imago approach is: based on what I found, there seems to be basically no evidence that this therapy is effective.
Am I glad I read it? I think so?? It was thought-provoking, with the pretty significant grain of salt that there’s not much evidence to support that Imago therapy is much better than doing nothing at all. Also, I feel a little gross giving my money to relationship experts who (in 2019!!)) won’t even acknowledge the existence of queer people, even when doing so would obviously strengthen their core arguments and provide better examples than some of the meek ones they give.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2021
★★★★★ 5
Great book!
Format: Paperback
I read this once through on my own and picked up a lot of great wisdom. Now my spouse are reading it together so we can answer the questions together. I'm excited for thought provoking discussions on raising our future child.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 4, 2020
★★★★★ 5
Now you know (some of) what you don't know
Format: Kindle
As I'm ready to embark on parenthood, I truly appreciated the insights offered by these parents. The learning has given me more confidence and preparation in managing expectations, handling difficult situations and being the ideal parent.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 12, 2019
★★★★★ 5
As an expectant parent, I found the information in ...
Format: Paperback
As an expectant parent, I found the information in the book to be helpful. While I know I will not come across all the topics immediately, I know I can keep it as a reference in my journey of parenting.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2017
★★★★★ 5
Thinking of having kids?
Format: Kindle
This book opens up more that just the kids question. It's the working in a team with your spouse that will build a strong house! It's not easy, but you you need to work at clear matters before u enter parenthood. This book does that.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 26, 2016